Things to ask in an online dating message
Chances are extremely good that few people will click through your profile.
If they do send you a message, a photo is likely to be the first thing they ask for.
Unlike online dating sites, most mobile apps are free, require just a few seconds to set up and include a real-time geolocation feature, which is to say that they’re more immediate. Set your location, age and gender preferences, and you’ll see a stream of pictures showing who’s available nearby.
Here are some basic answers to the questions you might be too embarrassed to ask.
In part because of how dating sites are designed, most of us see photos first, and that’s when we determine whether to read through the rest of a profile.
But I want to lay these out first -- because they're so vital to solid message writing -- and we'll get into the "whys" and the "hows" in a moment.
I was going to write about something else today -- I have a couple of big-concept posts I've been meaning to write up and get around to -- but, heck, the last post I put up was a big-concept post so I figured let's have a quick breather from that and get something a little lighter up first. I've been all too guilty of this myself -- sending super-long messages.